Men: The Missing Piece in the Women’s Empowerment Narrative
Through my journey to promote women’s rights as a Muslim Tunisian woman, I have discovered an oft-forgotten truth: In order for gender equality to become a reality, men and women must work together collaboratively.
Tunisia is the country that sparked the so-called Arab Spring in 2011 and is probably the only success story left out of that series of revolutions. I pride myself on my Tunisian heritage, and, more importantly, for the championing role that my country plays in the whole region regarding women’s empowerment. Only this year, Tunisian women were officially granted the right to marry outside of the Muslim faith. Yet, this activist spirit is not a recent phenomenon in Tunisia, and that was exactly what drove me to create a YouTube channel entitled “Meet Tunisia.”
Initially, the channel was meant to showcase Tunisian female success stories that would correct the misconceptions surrounding my country, especially of our women. However, through my involvement with the George W. Bush Institute Women’s Initiative Fellowship and numerous women’s rights projects, I saw that there is a missing piece to the puzzle that neither I, nor others, were fulfilling. I came to realize that women’s empowerment circles are doing a great job in exclusively female spaces, for an exclusively female audience, by an exclusively female set of brilliant trainers, educators, coaches, and activists, but are unintentionally being counter-productive to the long-term goals toward gender equality. These circles do indeed empower the female individuals they include, but are not necessarily as equally impactful on a broader level of the patriarchal communities they live in. As long as these circles remain exclusively female, I am afraid women’s rights issues will continue to be inaudible to the men around them, unless men take the initiative to join the battle.
By not including men in the conversation, decades of gender equality progress and real change in mentalities could not be actualized, not to mention the possible side effects like a potential schism between genders and a defensive and alienating attitude developing. I have always believed that gender equality is a global dialogue built in progress that necessitates continuous self-accountability. This is why, as a women’s rights activist, I feel that a better alternative would be inviting men and including them more in the ongoing conversation on gender equality.
I think a healthy model to look at is Canadian Prime Minister Justin Trudeau who created a gender-balanced cabinet and encouraged boys and men to identify as feminists. Equally effective ways of achieving this could be inspired by UN Women’s campaign, HeforShe, that offers a safe space in which men can openly discuss delicate issues. Leaders like Prime Minister Trudeau and campaigns like HeforShe are desperately needed to write a new synchronized and harmonious narrative in gender equality by deconstructing harmful stereotypes of masculinity that limit boys and men.
As a Muslim feminist, I can see the relevance of such an issue even inside my faith. As modern, open Muslims, we need more collaboration and dialogue between both genders in discussing our religion, thinking critically about the sexist interpretations that are now included under the banner of Islam. A good example is the former Islamist and British convert, Adam Deen, who once actively recruited extremists and is now dedicating his life to countering radical and extremist ideologies from within the faith. Additionally, some of the most revolutionary feminist male thinkers that helped shape our modern world today are Tunisian, including Taher Haddad, Kheireddine Pacha, Ibn Abi Dhiaf, and Mohamed Snoussi.
My dream today is to continue their legacy and help foster a spirit of gender cooperation. Both in order to secure a more peaceful future for my home as well as that of our global community.
Farah began her Women’s Initiative Fellowship journey with the deeply held belief that women are strong, capable and able to contribute greatly to society. Farah reports that this program has served to cement her views, put action behind her ideas, and provide her with real-life examples of gender equality and how it works in the real world. A fierce advocate of gender equality, Farah wants to inspire women to be all they can be – starting with those in Tunisia – and then spreading her message around the world.
After returning home, Farah launched a YouTube Channel entitled “Meet Tunisia” based on female story-telling. The goal of this channel is to provide a different, and perhaps unexpected, perspective on Tunisia. She hopes that hearing Tunisian women narrate their own stories will provide viewers with a fresh perspective and will challenge any misconceptions, generalization or stereotypes that may exist on the subject. Farah believes in the power of media to inform and transform our lives, its potential to shape our understanding of the context in which we currently live, and the importance of enhancing cross-cultural exchange and inter-faith dialogue.
Farah credits her shift of vision to the richness of the Women’s Initiative Fellowship. Farah believes the most inspiring aspect about the program is the first-hand insight she received from meeting many female leaders who both changed her perspective toward issues like the “glass ceiling” and helped her formalize her dreams and ambitions. Thanks to the WIF experience, Farah now feels more capable than ever of starting small and growing bigger, standing up for other women, and celebrating gender empowerment.
Farah is looking forward to expanding her YouTube platform and beginning to serve as an English-speaking commentator in the media to help put a face and voice to the stories of Tunisian women. She currently works for the International Rescue Committee, and is also preparing a PhD proposal. She also freelances in interpreting, proofreading, editing and translating.Full Bio
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